You said: “[She| … needs fucking cues to act like she gives two fucks about him. So he has to give her a cue that isn’t obvious….only after three years and her continued ineptitude, it has become obvious.” AH-HA, I get it now. Thanks for clearing that up! To an outsider, this is all very convoluted. What a way to live.

No worries. It is surreal to say the least. I know it all sounds crazy…it really does. But truth is stranger than fiction.

Remember that her NPD is co-morbid with BPD, both of those EBDs are untreatable. That alone makes her virtually impossible to work with…

Aeltri