Our culture’s tangled relationship with sexuality being what it is, though, achieving that sort of clarity when sexual attraction is involved seems to be more difficult than with other emotions. Very often, in fact, when a magical lodge or other working group starts getting into the sexual dimensions of magic, things very quickly turn into slap-and-tickle in funny robes. That’s all very well if slap-and-tickle is what you’re looking for, and funny robes are no more shocking these days than any other paraphilia you care to name; still, it’s not necessarily helpful to confuse this sort of entertainment with magic.
JMG
This is what the Craft is often reduced to. A bunch of self-indulgent fools trying to get their rocks off and hoping that they can thus impose their weak Will upon reality. Polarity doesn’t work that way! What do they get instead? They open themselves up to hostile spirits who drain their energy and turn them into mindless meat puppets. It’s downright laughable to those of us born with the Sight.