I’m really sorry you find it insulting, but it’s not like I’m calling her names or anything. I’m calling her Ursula. Which is a perfectly lovely name actually, so it shouldn’t be that hurtful… However, don’t worry, if I ever meed Ben and Ursula and they call me around their house for tea and cucumber sandwiches, I’ll make sure to call her by her given name. To do otherwise would be impolite…
“I know it’s heart breaking that he married a woman that he loves.”
Well he didn’t now, did he?
1. He married a woman he doesn’t love
2. It hasn’t broken my heart, I’m simply miffed
3. It’s broken his spirit
“If you a truly a fan of Ben.C. you wouldn’t be saying stuff about Sophie.
I wish that actors could live their lives without the haters.”
Well, we’re not haters, we are simply not willing to accept anything anyone wants to cram down our throats. That means we have critical thinking, an opinion and we are not afraid to state it.
“It’s his life, he can do whatever the fuck he wants with it and it’s not up to us to decide for him.”
Again, we are not trying to decide anything for him. We are here to speculate.
Wow annashipper, you really stirred up something with your post!
But you’re handling it all so well, I love reading your responses. Awesome, level-headed and honest. 😀
Guys, I really don’t know how the heck this happened! I’m guessing it was the Nanny that pointed them in my direction that did it.
THANKS by the way! :o)
All day long today, I’ve been getting lovely messages from Nonny Nannies that wish to remain in the shadows and they’re merely thanking me for being rational and not cursing them off or cursing Ursula off (although they are miffed I keep calling her Ursula)
And what I’ve been trying to tell them all day long is that we are a logical bunch us skeptics. Not to mention cordial :o)
BC loves Ursula as much as she loves him…which is to say not at all. Co-dependency isn’t love btw, love doesn’t drain the life out of you the way the ShamWow has BC. Why can’t the stannies see the patently negative effect it’s had on him?