When I say “I’m not having kids,” I mean I’m not having kids. That is not your cue to say “Oh you’ll have kids” or “You’ll change your mind” or “It’s different when they’re your own.” It is not a personal attack on your lifestyle. It is my choice. Stop trying to force your ideas of how life should be lived down my throat.
I may or may not have kids *shrugs*. But I DO wish some people would stop pestering me about my marriage plans, parental inclinations (or lack thereof) like every 15 minutes. Since you can’t argue with illogical people, the best way to shut them up is to look at them like so…